I was overwhelmed. I constantly had a pit in my stomach. I cried often, and I almost called off my wedding.
Working with Allison quite literally saved my marriage.
Although there were many, the three categories that Allison helped me with most
1) re-defining what I had previously defined as love. (Infatuation? Unavailability? Intensity? By really examining how I defined love, I learned to value the solidity, constancy and loyalty of my fiance.
2) increasing my emotional intelligence, which freed me from being prisoner to my emotions
3) transitioning from my exciting, roller-coaster 20-something single life (see #1, defining love!) into my
new identity as a 30-something wife.
She helped me realize I was blaming my poor fiance for my feelings.
When in fact, it was my stuff I had to process through.