"Whenever anyone mentioned the wedding or my fiancé, my throat tightened. I'd get short of breath. My heart raced. I was scared.
Four months earlier, I happily said "yes!" to a wonderful man who understood me inside and out and was perfect on paper. Before becoming engaged, I loved my relationship with my fiancé. I loved him, felt lucky to be with him, and that we had such a special and magical relationship.
I was so confused.
I never imagined I'd have cold feet. I thought cold feet only happened right before your wedding.